Taking this path…you could be on the road for some cool, calm
“self-insight”. Just lay back and let the good stuff soak in.
Throughout life; from beginning to end…we continuously learn, unlearn, modify and
up-grade our, general/overall, understanding of life. We’ve a
vested interest, in “just how things seem to work”…relations…advancement,
etc., etc.. Early on, ideas are
formed…tested…advanced…modified…re-formulated…re-proven…and, occasionally, re-evaluated, with the help of
substantial insight. That’s it.
That’s the one we’re trying to develop…and
strengthen…insight.
Insight enables our ability to see things, clearly…in order that we may gain access
to insight, a “renewal” of focus (from time to time), is required. That, provides us with a
better picture of on-going situations, up-coming “likelihoods”, and personal position (regarding surroundings,
personal and social relations, and self assessment). Most of us,
of course, have used some degree of insight
from early childhood on, but consider
this:
Generally, most of us have some
awareness that this life is a pretty impressive (if not wonderful) thing…but, during
times of substantial challenge,
there may be a tendency to focus on negative aspects. Too much (of this) will, of
course, distract us from goals…to the degree that we increase our
determination not to become so distracted, in the future.
This could be a problem
for some (depending on exact
circumstances), as overwhelming negative events/influences may come to bear…we are unable to progress,
normally.
Failing to make the kind of
steady/dependable progress that
might form substantial “stepping stones” (toward goals),
we look to a sense of more general progress
(in life as a whole), with more appreciation for, and devotion to, the very tiniest “conquests”, in life…the real,
positive factors that are, in deed,
deserving of full credit (for their contribution).
However…such
“credit” must be limited to the actual, realistic role, played
at that time. These small
accomplishments form “steps” that serve us well…but, only so long as we focus
on the path, ahead…not the stones,
beneath our “feet”. There is a strong tendency
to focus on that which is close.
We, instinctively,
refrain from allowing our attention
to get too close to anything we may
perceive as distractive or (possibly)
undesirable, in a given circumstance.
Renewed energies are accorded efforts to seek the positive (influences and
perspectives)…we tend to be “drawn”
by what we perceive as desirable.
The problem, here is that, should our judgment be just a tiny bit off,
we may miss “early warning signs”… suddenly finding our self in close proximity with things/events/influences,
not clearly defined. Should circumstances or moods dictate, we may
find ourselves embracing something
very bad
(or, at least, potentially so). If, by now, we have failed to recognize the
situation as negative, we are in for trouble,
ahead!
Assuming
that we have seen the situation, for what it is, (something that should have been avoided, in the first place) we are, now, forced
to immediately initiate a plan of either immediate extraction, or acceptance!
This (negative) factor (be it
large or small) is a “thing”, which (so long as it remains),
will be integrated within, and carried forward. Such things, of course, vary greatly, by degree. Should there be any ambiguity
about the future for this situation, it may be replaced by a “hope”
that this negative factor may, somehow, play a tempering (or other
catalytically changing) role, which may (if properly applied) contribute,
positively, in future endeavors.
Should, ever, such a scenario unfold,
in life, one should be very much aware that a strong, negative element (embedded within both
motivation and action) is, now, playing a role…one that should be monitored.
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An “edge”, in attitude, has been formed…shaping our “character”. It may be used to good advantage (see: Positive Use), but, commonly,
becomes an “abrasive” quality, in our relations with others. Certain such qualities contribute to our uniqueness, as individuals…but may be
misunderstood, by others. Their “long-range” defenses may lead to a use of
“tactics/barriers” that are undesirable. Excessive “distance” may become a factor in
further relations (not to mention increased
misunderstanding).
Despite (or, perhaps, because of) such
factors, simple curiosity may lead to further investigation…but, unless substantial
“comfort levels” are reached, the
quality
level of ensuing communication
is greatly diminished.
Over our history of human engagement,
people have developed many levels of communication, within each of our myriad cultures. These cultures have
merged, split and influenced future generations, in ways that are so complex,
that individuals, more recently, embody qualities, and enjoy abilities that are
unfathomable to others! The fact that we “stand”
where we stand, today is, truly, a
testament to the human spirit! But, being aware of the immensity of past
failures, we are driven to find new, better, more secure/permanent methods of advancement!
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Today, most beneficiaries, of fairly advanced
societies, can take considerable comfort
in the fact that so many of us share so many basic values, desires, and possibilities. Mutual appreciation for such things gives impetus to further human progress…while,
encouraging increased responsibility in the, actual,
implementation of projects/endeavors. Greater desire for clarity, caution,
and focal
considerations, adds to our
assurance of success.
From a certain perspective, the very fact
of our vast wealth, as seen in
areas such as possibilities, concrete assets, and societal
structure, gives rise to the question: “Can’t this great abundance
be, some how, harnessed for the
benefit of all?” Such questions, usually, come to the forefront while we are
focusing much of our attention on urgent,
basic human needs. These demand
answers.
The idea
of advancing important agenda, while, at the same time, sharing the “wealth”, with those who are in “need”, may seem to be an
impossible dilemma…but it is one we
must attend to. To the extent that we do so, effectively, our future progress
will be expedited!
In the past…many schemes to implement sharing, have resulted in great failures. Comprehensive, elaborate,
thoughtful, and (seemingly) complete systems, have (in time) demonstrated
inability to deliver lasting benefit,
to all
segments of society. Perhaps such failure is predicated on the lack of a “feeling of responsibility”, on the part of each and every person,
for the success of such undertakings. “Responsibility” will not be assumed by people who do not feel they are,
really, a respected/empowered part of it. “Temporary” or “token” positions, within society, only serve
society for limited time/scope or applications.
Everyone wishes to be a “part of things”, for as long as they desire to do so…and in accordance with their own individual perspective on “true
purpose”.
Determined, positive evolution of human ability to work, together, towards shared goals
will continue to further enhance our, overall condition. Such great, underlying phenomena,
in life, is rarely noted (consciously)…much
demands our attention. But, when afforded opportunity to reflect on such bounty, we might accept the reality…in as much as it is
a part of the whole “picture” of our
total reality. Only such a complete “picture” will serve us most effectively/efficiently, in our
efforts to progress. Attempts to give
ourselves an “edge”, by “overlooking” positive aspects/assets (a means to set aside a kind of “hedge”) will fail to accomplish this when, consciously, undertaken. Our most effective “edge” comes from a fresh
and relevant
“application” of strength.
The relevance
of terms, like “strength”, “power” and “wealth” may, of course, only, be found
within the unique application to
which we apply them. Full (and fulfilling) deployment of our capabilities, will
be forthcoming, inasmuch as the integration,
of our “abilities” is complete, whole and focused!
Most people, historically,
have failed to reach their full potential. Untold assets have (in hindsight)
been wasted. We, all, wish to exceed the accomplishments of the past…and
should, easily, do so…after all, much groundwork
has been laid. Efforts, based on the most realistic assessment of existing conditions, will deliver the most effective and lasting
progress.
Considering that all of our “wishes” and
“desires”…which may be viewed as “extensions” to our present, anticipated or
(even) “imagined” personal “life
structure” (which one has been developing, during this “stay” on earth) may,
only, be envisioned (comprehensively)
and fully appreciated, by one person.
Communication, between people, should,
always, develop in both directions, (while at the same time)
embodying respect for the needs of
all…in terms of both importance and priority. Communication
is inherently intimate, but may, at times,
“reach out” (broadly), with inclusive
possibilities. We can and will accomplish much, together, while developing
appreciation for the challenges ahead!
(Link to:
“Positive Use of Abrasive Edge in One’s Personality”)
Link to: Basic
Human Relations
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